Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the

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Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life

People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and family relationships. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and Narcissists may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate relationships, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controllingâ€”in the extreme. Their ability to function normally or pleasantly can suddenly change in an instant, like flipping a switch. These negative behaviors donâ€™t happen once in a while, they happen almost continuously in their intimate relationships and most often, and especially with their Caretaker family member.

Here, Margalis Fjelstad describes how people get into a Caretaker role with a Borderline or Narcissist, and how they can get out. Caretakers give up their sense of self to become who and what the Borderline or Narcissist needs them to be. This compromises the Caretakerâ€™s self-esteem, distorts their thinking processes, and locks them into a Victim-Persecutor-Rescuer pattern with the Borderline or Narcissist. The book looks at the underlying rules and expectations in these relationships and shows Caretakerâ€™s how to move themselves out of these rigid interactions and into a healthier, more productive, and positive lifestyleâ€”with or without the Borderline/Narcissistic partner or family member. It describes how to get out of destructive interactions with the Borderline or Narcissist and how to take new, more effective actions to focus on personal wants, needs, and life goals while allowing the Borderline or Narcissist to take care of themselves. It presents a realistic, yet compassionate, attitude toward the self-destructive nature of these relationships, and gives real life examples of how individuals have let go of their Caretaker behaviors with creative and effective solutions.

Country	USA
Author	Margalis Fjelstad
Binding	Kindle Edition
Edition	Reprint
EISBN	9781442220195
Format	Kindle eBook
Label	Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Manufacturer	Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
NumberOfPages	230
PublicationDate	2013-02-07
Publisher	Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
ReleaseDate	2013-01-04
Studio	Rowman & Littlefield Publishers

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life

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