Debunking the Myths of Forgive-And-Forget

“Forgive-and-forget” slaps a band-aid over a gaping wound and tells us to keep on limping.



Real forgiveness, on the other hand, invites us to remove the bandages, examine the wound, and open ourselves up to a restorative process.



What gives us the courage to undertake such a difficult, potentially painful procedure?



We find the bravery to practice true, soul-deep forgiveness in the context of a Love that holds us safe, no matter what.

In the process of real forgiveness, we’ll learn what wise trust looks like. We’ll be able to choose reconciliation or release in relationships. Most of all, we’ll turn toward healing.



Real forgiveness can be messy and hard. But in the end, it brings the kind of rest to our souls that no easy answer can offer. For that reason, we debunk the myths and dig in.